221. Take the time and you too shall hear. It is through the peace that will surround you if you are willing to allow it to come over you that you will be able to hear.

220. Never place the belief that your spouse is being untrue to you in your mind or theirs’. It is only by doing this that you have planted the seeds that you wish not to sow. For having falsely labeled them as such in time the seed you have planted will grow into a desire to have the game as well as the name should you continue to nurture that ill belief.

219. The vow is often destroyed by the fear of loosing the one you love. Do not fear loosing them to another. Fear driving them away through jealousy and not believing in them. Fear not having the faith of the love that brought you together. Fear acquiring the belief they can and should be something they are not. Remember they are what God intended them to be. Fear that the tone of voice you use will not be of a loving nature. Speak with a tone that says you love them. Fear that you will loose or not be able to show the compassion that is needed when the time comes.

218. A vow is a solemn promise, a pledge given to another with an open heart and soul. Unfortunately it is often forgotten over a period of one’s life. A period of time that; has closed one or the other one’s heart or soul. Nothing else has changed except your perception of your mate since the closing of the door or doors.

217. Where would we be today had Jesus remained silent?